In relationships – which are a key part of your Health – sometimes you must lead by example, and express a willingness to go first by actually going first, no matter how scary or uncomfortable it may be.
That might mean sharing something personal, admitting your mistake, or perhaps going along with the other person or groups opinion without any conditions.
In a word or two, you must surrender; you must be completely willing.
When you hold on too tightly to your position; when you are not completely willing; when you do not truly surrender, then, you’re not really all the way in the relationship.
And that is always felt (but not always spoken about) by both parties.