Going back again to the idea of cause and effect, it can be scary to admit to yourself all of the ways in which YOU were the cause of why certain things are the way they are today.
But there is power in that.
To the exact degree that you were the cause of any negative or undesirable effect, you can also be the cause of a positive and desirable effect in the opposite direction.
Perhaps that specific situation you’re thinking of can’t be rectified, but even still, you can apply your new power of cause to a new, similar situation.
The power of cause is powerful indeed.
It’s just a question of how you channel.
Matt Fried 