I’m allergic to the word ‘can’t’.
I hate it so much, I would almost rather say absolutely nothing than say it.
To me, it’s an excuse. It’s a poor mindset. It’s not helpful.
If I really cannot do something, then I’d much rather tell you in terms of what I can do, than what I can.
In fact, try it for yourself.
The next time you hear yourself about to say “I can’t _____”, instead, try:
“I [will or can] do this [insert time].”