Sometimes you have to go deeper.
Sometimes what tell yourself (or me) the problem is, isn’t the real problem.
Sometimes you already have everything you need to solve the problem – you’re just scared to admit it.
You might be scared to succeed.
Or, you might be afraid to admit that you actually don’t want what you say you want. You really want to stay right here, comfortable and safe. You don’t really want that change badly enough.
You can’t want to make a change because someone else told you you should.
It has to be from inside of you, your soul, your burning desire.
Not mine, or anyone elses.
It might be in there, underneath all of the other surface stuff you’ve been dancing around.
But you have to be brave enough to grab it.
Matt Fried 