Worse at this, or better at that.
Fatter or skinnier.
Stronger or weaker.
Happier or unhappier.
Richer or poorer.
With or without.
How much of, well, everything you do, is chasing or jostling to be on one side of a comparison, or the other?
What would happen if you suddenly just … dropped all of that comparing?
Or at least, since that would be a hefty task, started to notice when you were doing it, and laugh at how unnecessary it is?
Matt Fried 