I don’t think you’ll argue with me when I say that life is a gift.
Since that is true, then we must accept that everything which life presents to us is also a gift, and it’s that acceptance which is very difficult.
Yet I do promise you that even though it is certainly not always easy to accept, the more that you can practice this acceptance, the more you will get better at it.
This does not always make everything ‘better’. What it does is, it make life worth living, and helps you to grow.