If you typically viewed yourself as a victim of circumstance before, then right now, you’re probably really struggling with that mindset. I empathize with that, that must feel horrible, because circumstances are quite heavy right now.
It it possible, however, in as little as an instant, to shift that mindset. It’s not easy, and, thinking back, it took me quite a long time to do so.
But I can tell you with confidence that when you do, whether that is today, or some day in the future, no matter what circumstances occur, you will never be helpless to them again.
The Healthy Path 