Whatever you’re doing today, did you set out to win?
Whether it be school, work, the gym, a sport, or even spending time with your family, why are you doing it?
Yes, you can ‘win’ at family time, by enhancing the lives of those you’re spending time with. (As opposed to not.)
Starting out with the intention of winning doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun, that you have to be selfish, or that you’re always going to win.
It just means that you’re constantly moving things in the right direction.