I’m not prepared to say that ‘all things are meant to be’ or, suggest any kind of predetermination.
However, the wisdom of what already works is something we cannot ignore. And just about every ‘successful’ person I read about or listen to says, in one way or another, that ‘you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with’.
And the more I practice this in my own life, the more it becomes evident.
So, yes, we do attract, or repel, certain kinds of people and opportunities based on the choices we make.
If those choices are focused on health & happiness, then, generally, they will beget more health & happiness for you & those around you.