How to Tell If Someone Is Asking You For Help

Nobody tells you about a problem they’re having unless:

  • You’ve asked, or;
  • They are asking for help.

Let’s say you haven’t asked.

That leaves the other scenario: they want you to help.

  • It might not be something they admit.
  • It might not be more than just to listen.
  • It might not be a good time for you.
  • It might not be a big problem.
  • It might not be one you can solve.
  • It might not be helping them, if you try.

But make no mistake about it: even if it doesn’t sound like a question, they are asking.

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