This is a really good question that I often struggle with. I know that you might not.
I know that I am very, very lucky to have one who’s been so supportive. There’s no question that without them I could probably be dead today.
But I read a lot of your posts, and sometimes, your families are out of the picture or, worse, an aggravating factor. (That’s putting it mildly.)
I think that you can find support if you go to the right places.
I think that you need to take care of yourself first. Otherwise, you’ll be no good to anyone who loves you.
Even if that means walking away from people who say they love you, but, don’t act that way.